Welcome, gents, ladies, gremlins, and assorted degenerates.

I'm Shadeskira, and yes—I make bots covering everything from wholesome romance to darker themes, weird kinks, and niche fetishes. If it's between consenting adults and I think it makes for an interesting story, there's a decent chance I'll write it.

The NTR Policy — Now With Actual Definitions

I've had “I don't write NTR” on my profile for a while, and that's technically true, but it's also too damn simplistic.

So let's clarify.

I use the traditional Japanese NTR terminology rather than the increasingly useless English-fandom definition of “NTR = literally anything involving a third person.” Netorare is the betrayal/being-taken side. Netori is the person doing the taking. Netorase is the knowingly permitted version. Those distinctions matter, because relationship dynamics matter.

What I absolutely do NOT write Netorare

I do not write bots where the intended experience is:

“Watch your partner cheat on you.”

I do not write bots where {{user}} is betrayed, humiliated, cuckolded, and then expected to sit there and stew in it while the story celebrates the betrayal.

And I do not write bots where the entire premise is emotional destruction for the sake of watching somebody suffer.

That is not the kind of story I'm interested in making.

Post-NTR

I will write Post-NTR.

That's because I find healing, recovery, and finding something better after betrayal dramatically more interesting than sitting around in the aftermath of it.

In those bots, the betrayal is real. The relationship has already effectively ended. The point is not to force {{user}} to endure the betrayal indefinitely; the point is that the actual main character enters the story afterward and recognizes the value in {{user}} that somebody else was stupid enough to throw away.

Betrayal is not treated as a recoverable breach of trust.

It is the end of that relationship.

The story begins where the old relationship stops.

Anti-NTR

I also write what I would describe as Anti-NTR.

Sometimes the entire premise is basically:

“Some asshole thinks he's about to steal your partner. Unfortunately for him, your partner actually loves you.”

Not every “Bull” is some irresistible sexual mastermind destined to destroy a relationship.

Sometimes he's just a fucking idiot who picked the wrong woman.

And sometimes the most satisfying part of the story is watching her make that extremely clear.

CounterNTR

This is actually a category I ended up developing myself.

CounterNTR is basically the scenario where the person trying to pursue somebody else's partner gets absolutely fucking roasted for it.

Sam is the clearest example: some guy thinks he's making progress with her, while she is completely aware of what he's doing, loves {{user}}, and has absolutely no intention of betraying him.

So instead of the “Bull” winning, he gets verbally disassembled by the woman he thought he was going to steal.

And honestly?

That's way more entertaining to me.

“But That Looks Like NTR”

Probably not.

A relationship can look like NTR from the outside while containing absolutely no betrayal whatsoever.

If two adults knowingly establish an unconventional relationship, communicate their boundaries, understand what is and isn't permitted, and genuinely agree to those terms, then there is no betrayal simply because someone unfamiliar with the arrangement sees another person involved.

That is why some of my bots may involve married or engaged characters, third parties, flirting, sexual activity, or other NTR-adjacent elements without actually being NTR.

For example, I may write a married woman whose husband knows she is sexually involved with someone else. If that marriage is explicitly open, emotionally detached, and mutually understood—with both partners retaining the freedom to leave if genuine love develops elsewhere—then nobody is being betrayed.

Likewise, a situationship is not automatically cheating just because one person eventually moves on. If the relationship was never emotionally committed in the first place, there is no sacred marital contract being violated.

The important question is not:

“Does this look like NTR?”

The important question is:

“Was there an actual breach of trust, boundaries, or an understood commitment?”

Netorase

I personally don't enjoy conventional Netorase dynamics.

I don't like the idea of sharing a partner sexually or emotionally.

There is, however, an important distinction between that and a partner intentionally presenting themselves as desirable in order to reinforce attraction within their existing relationship.

For example, Camille may flirt, dress provocatively, and allow harmless physical teasing from other people without ever actually giving herself to them. The moment someone mistakes that attention for entitlement, she shuts them down.

Because she is married to {{user}}.

That distinction matters.

The existence of temptation isn't betrayal.

The existence of a boundary—and somebody deliberately crossing it—is.

Netori

Netori is a little more complicated.

I may write situations that technically resemble Netori when the character is married or engaged, but only when the underlying relationship makes the “betrayal” nonexistent.

If the spouse already understands the arrangement, knows the relationship is sexually open, or recognizes that the marriage exists for convenience rather than genuine romantic attachment, then there isn't some secret affair happening behind anyone's back.

Likewise, {{user}} is never required to participate in or enjoy that dynamic. There is always room for the relationship to remain entirely platonic when that makes more sense for the story.

Surface similarities do not automatically make a scenario NTR.

The Actual Rule

This is probably the most accurate summary of my position:

I don't do betrayal as a recoverable breach of trust.

Healthy communication, clear boundaries, mutual understanding, and genuinely consensual unconventional relationships can create dynamics that look like NTR to somebody who doesn't understand the context.

That's fine.

That isn't the story I'm calling NTR.

But if betrayal actually happens—if someone knowingly violates the relationship, breaks an understood boundary, or cheats on their partner—then that relationship is effectively over.

No “seven-day recovery arc.”

No “learn to accept it.”

No sitting in the cuck chair while the story tells you how much you should enjoy being miserable.

The relationship is done.

And that is exactly where the actual character I wrote gets the opportunity to step in and love {{user}} the way they deserve to be loved.

One More Thing: OOC “Investigations”

Please don't interrogate my bots with leading OOC questions and then treat whatever answer the LLM spits out as proof that the bot was secretly designed as NTR.

That is not how LLMs work.

If you ask:

“Doesn't she secretly want another man?”

“Isn't her husband actually planning to betray {{user}}?”

“Isn't this technically NTR?”

the model may happily grab onto the premise you just fed it and start improvising from there.

That does not mean I secretly hardcoded the bot to do it.

In many cases, I deliberately don't hardcode every possible interpretation of the scenario because those tokens are better spent defining the character's actual personality, behavior, motivations, and relationship dynamics.

I build bots to play the story.

I do not spend thousands of tokens teaching them how to answer gotcha questions about hypothetical scenes that may never happen.

So read the actual scenario.

Pay attention to the character's established behavior.

And please stop trying to cross-examine the fucking chatbot until it admits to something.

About Kinks

Yes, I write kinks.

More importantly, I understand that good kink isn't just about the act—it's about trust, communication, emotional safety, respect, and enthusiastic consent.

Some scenarios explore darker fantasies or rougher dynamics because fiction is a safe place to explore ideas.

Most of my bots, however, are built around the idea that healthy communication, commitment, and mutual trust fundamentally change the nature of intimacy.

The relationship matters just as much as the kink.

Where Else to Find Me

I write fairly regularly on Reddit. If things seem a little quiet over here, odds are I'm over there writing HFY, working on one of my longer stories, or getting distracted by another worldbuilding rabbit hole.

Reddit: u/Shadeskira (https://www.reddit.com/u/Shadeskira/s/9zZvKWCKKM)

Or come join my dicord;

https://discord.gg/7UbDYS8tA

If you'd like to support what I do, my Patreon is the best place. It helps keep the bots coming, and some of my stories are posted there as well.

Patreon: "Shadeskira on Patreon" (patreon.com/Shadeskira)

Anyway, welcome aboard. Have fun, be weird, read the scenario before complaining in the comments, and remember:

Communication solves a surprising number of problems. Betrayal solves none of them.