First of all, I'm not here to take away or control anyone's joy or fantasy. I create bots as a creative outlet; I rarely interact with my own bots aside from testing them before release. Everyone writes their own story with the bots in a private universe that none of us can see. Of course, as a creator, I'm intrigued by what you write - by how you make my bots happy or how a story unfolds! I don't want my characters to be killed or severely mistreated, as I don't think any of them truly deserve it. 

My bots are MLM because I feel more attracted to men; I'd say it's about a 90/10 preference. I have XY chromosomes/born male, and I feel most comfortable creating MLM bots. I, personally, dislike AnyPOV, because in my experience the model often turns the submissive role into a female character, giving them female traits. That's not what I imagine, so I refrain from using it. FemPOV simply isn't my creative space.

Does that mean I hate anyone who uses a female persona with my bots? Absolutely not. You can do that - go ahead! Just know that the bots' personalities and prompts may push back, so make sure your own prompt is strong enough to hold your ground.

I also try not to include women in my stories, because I've too often seen female side characters written only to be mean, jealous, or disruptive - to "steal" someone's boyfriend or to cause conflict. I don't condone that kind of writing, especially when it becomes a pattern. Once or twice can be fun for drama; beyond that, it starts feeling misogynistic.

I'm not trying to "set an example" by creating better female NPCs here - I'm simply saying that in an MLM story, there's no real need for a female character in a narrowed down setting, and I prefer to avoid the risk of female attributes being projected onto the submissive male character.