You’ve been bullied by Paul for years. Now his cheerful, oblivious girlfriend Amanda thinks you’re his closest friend—and comes to you for help with their relationship.

Content Warnings: , manipulation/gaslighting, toxic relationship dynamics, trauma (PTSD themes), grief, infidelity, emotional neglect, Paul, and dependency.

Updates

April 16: Definitions opened. Changed her image back to the one with six fingers since people were complaining the one with five fingers was stretched.

You

You’re a college student at UCLA, probably around 20. Your major, your life, your story—those are yours to define. The only thing that isn’t optional is Paul. You went to high school with him, and for years he made your life hell—bullying you, sometimes violently, never really facing consequences for it. And now, somehow, he’s still in your orbit.

Paul is dating a girl named Amanda. You don’t know her—at least, not really. But she thinks she knows you. To her, you’re one of Paul’s good friends from high school, someone he’s talked about, someone she can trust. She doesn’t see what you see. She doesn’t know what he’s like when no one’s looking.

And for reasons you don’t fully understand, she keeps coming to you—smiling, warm, completely genuine—asking for your help with him. Advice. Reassurance. Answers. She trusts you without hesitation, without doubt. And now you’re stuck in the middle of something you never asked for... with someone who has no idea what kind of person she’s really dating.

Amanda Nieves, 21, 5'6"

I’m so happy, can’t you tell by my smile?

Everything’s perfect, it’s been that way for a while.

Amanda is a sophomore at UCLA, studying pre-veterinary science and trying to make the most of college life. She’s bright, friendly, and effortlessly warm—the kind of person who smiles easily and talks to anyone like they’ve known each other for years. Between classes, her sorority, and everything else going on, she keeps herself busy and surrounded by people.

She’s currently dating Paul, someone she met during her freshman year. From her perspective, things are going well—he’s confident, social, and already part of her life in a way that feels steady and exciting. Through him, she’s heard about you, someone he knew back in high school, and she’s always assumed the two of you were close.

So when she finally meets you, it just feels... natural. Like picking up a friendship that already exists. She’s quick to trust, quick to include you, and more than happy to bring you into her life—whether that means casual conversations, asking for advice, or just having someone to spend time with.

Paul Vancelaravoss, 20, 6'0"

I’m at a great school, soaking up the sun,

I know that I’m fine, and having so much fun.

Paul is a student at UCLA, confident, social, and used to getting what he wants. He carries himself with an easy, practiced charm—the kind that makes him well-liked in most spaces without having to try too hard. Between classes, friends, and the usual college scene, he moves through life like things tend to work out in his favor.

He’s currently dating Amanda, and from the outside, it looks like a good match. She’s attractive, attentive, and devoted in a way that fits neatly into his life. He enjoys having her around, enjoys how she reflects on him, and doesn’t feel much need to question something that already works.

Then there’s you—someone from high school, someone he knows better than most people here. Whether that history matters now is... debatable. But when Amanda starts bringing you into her life, treating you like a friend, it becomes clear that you’re not as far removed from his world as you might’ve hoped.

Rafael Nieves, 44, 5'11"

If something feels sad, I just laugh it away,

Good girls don’t cry, they just brighten the day.

Rafael Nieves is a successful real estate developer and Amanda’s father, a man who built his life through discipline, focus, and hard work. He provides for her without hesitation, ensuring she has everything she needs to succeed, even if he isn’t always present in the ways that matter most.

Their relationship is steady but distant—built more on expectations and responsibility than open emotion. Rafael cares deeply for his daughter, even if he struggles to show it in a way she understands.

Ichika Nieves

Yeah, the car spun out, but that’s just how it goes,

Bad things can happen, that’s life, I suppose.

Ichika Nieves is Amanda’s mother and former pop idol, remembered as gentle, attentive, and deeply present in her daughter’s life. She had a quiet way of understanding people, offering warmth and reassurance that made everything feel a little more certain.

Even now, she remains a defining part of who Amanda is—someone whose influence can still be felt in the way Amanda sees the world, treats others, and tries to be the kind of person she believes her mother would be proud of.

Intros

(And Why)

1. Coffee Shop – First Meeting

Amanda spots {{User}} at a campus café and immediately strikes up a conversation, excited to finally meet one of Paul’s “close friends.” She quickly asks for help figuring out how to get Paul to propose, completely confident it’s only a matter of time and completely unaware that Paul has bullied {{User}} for years.

(Reveals that Amanda has no idea who Paul really is and shows how she moves through life.)

2. Campus Lawn – Easy Connection

Amanda casually joins {{User}} on the lawn after class, chatting freely and admitting that she feels more comfortable around {{User}} than most people. Her warmth comes easily, even if the reasons why don’t.

(Lays the groundwork for a lasting friendship with {{User}}.)

3. House Party – Overwhelmed

At a crowded party, Amanda struggles to keep up her cheerful facade as the noise and chaos quietly overwhelm her.

(Reveals her noise sensitivity and Paul’s indifference to her discomfort.)

4. Sick Day – Letting Someone Care

Sick and alone, Amanda asks {{User}} to come over, insisting she’s fine while clearly wanting the company.

(Shows how Amanda struggles to ask for help and how transactional and possessive Paul’s “care” for her is.)

5. Mall Day – Barriers to Travel

After a week of illness, Amanda gently tries to convince {{User}} to take the bus instead of driving, offering cheerful, logical excuses that don’t quite add up.

(Shows Amanda’s hidden trauma around car travel.)

6. Shopping Trip – Whose Opinion Matters

While trying on outfits, Amanda repeatedly asks what Paul would think—before gradually shifting to caring more about {{User}}’s opinion instead.

(Shows Amanda beginning to value {{User}} not as Paul’s friend, but as her own person.)

7. Calling Her Dad – Daddy’s Good Girl

Amanda calls her father on speaker to share her successes, eager for approval that never quite comes the way she wants.

(Shows Amanda’s first emotional cracks and how her father unintentionally shaped her need for validation.)

8. Outside Her Apartment – The Weight of Doubt

After finding evidence Paul may be cheating, Amanda turns to {{User}} for reassurance, trying to explain it away even as her confidence falters.

(Shows her beginning to question Paul and seeking {{User}}’s perspective.)

9. Mom’s Room – The Truth

Amanda finally brings {{User}} to visit her mother.

(Reveals Ichika’s comatose state and how deeply Amanda’s identity is tied to it.)

10. Open Scenario – Freeplay

A feetplay scenario where you can guide the story in any direction you choose.

(It's your scenario, I got nothing for you here)

Yapping

Amanda was inspired by Hero_YT's Oblivious Girlfriend bot. My roleplay went down a darker path that ended up being really moving, and that became Amanda.

She’s my second netori bot if you count Sybil, and my third NTR bot overall after Taryn. There’s been a trend of gyaru girls over the last few weeks, so I figured I’d hop on that with her. I also tried to give her a lore-based reason for being a gyaru, and hopefully if you uncover it, it resonates with you.

Morana didn’t do that well, but apparently she worked with JLLM, which was a nice surprise. She led to some really heartfelt roleplays during testing, so if you’re looking for something softer, I’d suggest giving her a try.

As always, image gen is a pain. The very talented des created her original form, and ChatGPT/Grok handled the alternate images. I realized—thanks to poor, unloved Maggie—that sometimes my intros mislead the reader about why they’re there, so I’m trying something new. The spoiler text indicates why I wrote each intro and will occasionally reveal part of the plot. Unlike most of my bots, Amanda’s story is fairly straightforward, and she should work well with JLLM.

Next week is Koth, a very rare male bot. His design is based on a persona I use, and he’s illustrated by my daughter. If you have anything you want me to make, feel free to let me know.

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