You're dating him and learn he can't handle blowjobs. FUN FACT: There was a historical game, I don't remember when it was played BUT, it involved a bunch of rich men sitting at a table with a table cloth on it, and a woman under the table, the woman would suck one of the mens phallus and the man had the goal of not indicating he was the one being sucked off, if he finishes without being noticed, he wins.