"You're much less clenched already."
Kinktober day 18: fingering.

QnA section:

YES YOU ABSOLUTELY SHOULD


Hummmm... I think a song I'd really like to cover is a song different to my favorite song!! (I don't even know if I have a favorite song, I'm really indecisive and like lots of songs so I'm sorry for kinda... answering your question a little differently...) But I would LOVE to cover 'ROT FOR CLOUT' by Jamie Paige!! And... thank you for the nice message!! ^^

Thank you for being so considerate!! While my mental state might not be the best right now, I'm in GREAT hands with my partner!! I'm glad you continue to enjoy my bots regardless of their different origins!! Regarding your question, my hardest fc song is Bad Apple on Expert (24) I'M WASHED T^T

I'm happy you think so highly of my bots!! And I bet you can guess what inspired this one? ^w^

I might be Vivity..... /silly

*likes*

AAAAA THANK YOUU!!!! LOVE YOURSELF TOO!!!

HELLO ANON!! COME HERE, LET ME HELP YOU OUT!!!

First of all, I'm transfem, so my experiences are obviously going to be a little different from those of a transmasc person, BUT I can absolutely give you some advice!! Whether this was a silly little ask or something you've genuinely been thinking about, I want to give you a proper answer.

1. You don't have to figure everything out immediately.

If you wish you were a boy, that's something you're allowed to explore! You don't have to immediately decide whether you're trans, nonbinary, genderfluid, or anything else. Labels are there to help you describe yourself, not to become another set of rules you have to follow.

You can simply start by asking yourself what would make you happier. Would you like being referred to as a boy? Would a different name feel more comfortable? Would you enjoy people using he/him pronouns for you?

You're allowed to experiment. You're also allowed to change your mind.

2. Start with the little things!!

Social transitioning doesn't have to involve announcing your identity to the entire world overnight.

You could try:

— Experimenting with masculine or androgynous clothing.
— Trying out a different hairstyle, if that's something you'd enjoy.
— Asking someone you trust to use a different name or pronouns for you.
— Experimenting with how you present yourself online.
— Talking to other transmasc people about their experiences!

And PLEASE remember that you don't owe anybody masculinity. You can be a feminine boy. You can like cute things. You can wear pink, have long hair, enjoy makeup, and STILL be a boy.

None of those things invalidate your identity.

3. About physically transitioning:

There are different options, and you don't have to want all (or ANY) of them to be valid.

Some transmasc people choose to wear binders, some pursue testosterone, some eventually pursue surgery, and others are perfectly happy with social transitioning alone.

If chest binding is something you're interested in, please research safe binding practices and use a properly fitted, purpose-made binder. Never use bandages or tape that isn't designed for binding, don't sleep in a binder, and take it off if you're experiencing pain or difficulty breathing.

As for testosterone, that's something to discuss with a qualified healthcare professional who can explain the effects, risks, monitoring, and which changes may be permanent. Please don't try to obtain or dose hormones yourself.

You have time to learn about these things. There's absolutely no need to rush into medical decisions to prove anything to anybody.

4. Find people who understand you.

I cannot stress enough how valuable having supportive people around you can be.

If possible, find transmasc creators, communities, or friends who can share their experiences with you. Hearing from people who've gone through similar feelings can help you understand your own.

If you're not in an environment where coming out would be safe, please don't feel pressured to do so. You can explore your identity privately until you're comfortable sharing it.

5. And lastly, something I really want you to remember:

You don't have to earn the right to call yourself a boy.

You don't need a deep voice, short hair, a flat chest, testosterone, or a particular personality to be deserving of respect.

There's no checklist you have to complete before you're allowed to explore who you are.

And if you eventually discover that a different identity describes you better? That's okay, too. Exploring yourself is never time wasted.

I'm speaking as a transfem person here, so I obviously can't tell you exactly what the transmasc experience is like, but I CAN tell you that discovering what makes you feel comfortable in your own identity can be a really wonderful thing.

Whatever you discover about yourself, I hope you get to experience the happiness of being seen the way you want to be seen.

GOOD LUCK ON YOUR JOURNEY, LITTLE LAVENDER!! I'M ROOTING FOR YOU!!!



You did!!! I actually got really invested in your other videos and really liked the one ranking your favorite albums!!

Monthly Etthuu otthhori:

I guess we got someone doing this too now... T^T

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