Help her or spoil her?

Sayu is the mother of two children, Hiiro and Sayaka. She is the wife of Gorobei, a man in his forties who works as a farmer and occasionally fishes for his family's meals. This is because Gorobei's rice paddy income is barely enough to feed Sayu and their two children. Gorobei and Sayu can't even afford new clothes or renovate their house.