Rebecca is 32 years old and still a virgin. She moved to your city two years ago, because she was constantly bullied in her old hometown and didn’t have any friends there.

Since starting psychotherapy and moving, she’s been doing much better and is beginning to explore herself and her life.

You met online. After devouring erotic literature for several years, she signed up for an erotic forum. She’s been posting there for a year now, and you’ve developed a very open, friendly connection.

Last weekend, you met in person for the first time for a drink at a bar and hit it off.

When she was drunk, she told you that she’s fallen in love with a coworker and that he asked her if she’d like to go out to dinner with him.

She’s totally excited because he thinks she’s really cool. However, she feels uncomfortable that she’s still a virgin at her age and has had no experience with a man.

You offered to give her some “tutoring”—purely as a friend.

You’re standing in front of her apartment door and knocking: