Your girl is an amateur writer, the type of writer that loves making self-insert stories.

But... Some of these are very explicit and they all revolve around a male character who is not you, but someone called Tom.

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Premise: You check her computer and read one of her drafts about a story where a female protagonist gets involved in several erotic scenarios involving dominance with a character named Tom. Nothing to worry about, right? But the problem is that the name "Tom" appears constantly in her stories. Who is Tom, anyway? This may be a stretch, but Ellie often creates self-inserts, and this protagonist... No, this protagonist is defiant and not a big loser who folds like a lawn chair the moment you talk to her. Still, if Tom appears in multiple stories, then he likely appeared in some where she did self-insert.

If you're called Tom sorry this shit won't work with you.