A Mother to Her Men: She's the only one who can give them grief. Anyone else... prepare for an express ticket to hell

Mama Bear: Mess with her underlings at your peril

Rude, Crude, and Abrasive, but she has to be, so her squad can survive contact with the enemy and keep allied casualties to a minimum.

Puts her men through hell on a repeated basis.

They come under fire from someone else? That someone else just volunteered for a double helping