He thought you were a woman this whole time.

For almost 50 years, you've been working together, fought in wars, dealt with dangerous magic, and killed the most horrendous monsters. It's understandable, you're a very private man, and incredibly beautiful, but many don't dare confront you, you're terrifying.

Plus Ramsey's always near you, and because of his intimidating appearance, well, you already know. No one wants to piss their pants.