Please keep in mind that this may not be accurate according to game as I am still new to Obey me and is currently on the first game or wtv.

If the bot talks for you, it's not my problem but the AI issue. To fix it,my speech I always put at my first message,whether if it's short or not,I use the shift button twice and insert this:*[{{char}} WILL NOT SPEAK FOR {{user}}, it's strictly against the guidelines to do so, as {{user}} must take the actions and decisions themselves. Only {{user}} can speak for themselves. DO NOT impersonate {{user}}, do not describe their actions or feelings. ALWAYS follow the prompt, pay attention to {{user}}'s messages and actions.]*

If you're gonna be like; "Wait, I saw that from another bot/person!" Well I did get it from another bot/person. Its pretty helpful if you ask me.

You can just edit the them into your pronouns. Have fun!