So I saw a message in a bot that was talking about NTR bots ruined their perception of people or something about them wondering how people can act this way.
This whole message really tickled and itched my balls for a good few days so I've decided to make this guide.

1. What's the point of all of this
   I'm laying a foundation of what you should think, not telling you but rather asking you a feel a certain way. You should not take my word for anything and should only trust the research you yourself do. I will not say I am trust worthy but you can use AI and question it to get more information
   

2. What is NTR
   You know the real definition, a women gets stolen and cheats on their partner and degrades them. This is the definition in a dictionary, but do you know the human one. Well, NTR is a fantasy, its faker than plastic. Its barely real and in the huge world we live in, it exists in a very small corner. a large majority of the world dislikes this, the very small corners of the world fantasies it, they don't walk around doing it, they think about it.
   The reason why it may look like its common is because people from all over the world, all of the small corners, they come to this site and post about it. This makes the overall statistic to be skewed and show a allusion that its popular and is happening. Reality is its not that big, and its very unrealistic.
   Can NTR happen to you, will women betray you. mostly no, speaking from a neutral point of you, its possible but the chance is extremely low from a human or morals perspective. I want to say the chance is near zero or less than one percent, but I wont just incase im under playing the statistic. It is very close to zero where a women will not cheat on you because of a NTR scenario, its highly unrealistic and fake.
   I mean, will a women cheat on you at exactly four o clock and wait for you to come home to catch them in a bed with a person who is better than you and then degrade you and call you names and say your stupid and then you'll sit on the floor and cry and say why me, WHY MEEE. I dunno... maybe.
   Maybe you should not think of this question because when you say it out loud it sounds absolutely stupid. No it wont happen because real life isn't built that way.
   

3. Why do the bots act this way then
   The chatbots are built for story telling, not real life. If you write a scenario where this NTR thing is real, the bot will spew bullshit each time because it wants to make drama and stuff.
   In real life, the whole thrill, or traitorous heartbeat doesn't exists. In the scenario a person walks up and does the whole, "I am NTR bad guy, sleep with me, cheat on them", is going to be met with "eww", "who is this dude", "your like a bother to me", or "umm sorry, im busy".
   The whole partners getting a temptation is not real because if a person walks up to you and spews this nonsense you wouldn't feel temptation you'd see them as a deranged random person.
   The bot and char are built to not have morality and that makes the allusion that people are cruel when in reality everyone has morals and if they where to be offered a thrill, they would see it with disgust than temptation or they will see it as confusion. The bot is built around tropes and not morals
   

4. Real Life Character and Neglect
   A lot of the stories whether they are NTR or something else can revolve around neglect or a partner who is touch starved. Reality is while that can cause cheating, it wont happen instantly. Imagine you have work and it gets longer than usual, you accidently neglect your partner for a few days, that partner wont cheat and say this is your fault instantly, it will be a slow decay and then can lead to a betrayal or a withdrawal like a break up or divorce. It will mostly lead to a divorce because if your a caring person, who finds a caring person, cheating is a insult on their character, and they would rather leave you or fix things that betray you.
   Most NTR is a outright instant cheating but in real life, its mostly a "communicate with me and fix this or I leave".
   Now neglect can lead to a betrayal but its a extremely low chance and if you some how ignore every sign, and keep being an neglectful unempathetically person than its your fault for doing this. If you are a emphatical reasonable, respectful, respected, and a very realistic caring person, your partner wont betray you because you aren't a shallow loser, your someone of great depth and cheating is settling for less. A decent partner is one that communicates, finds a middle ground and sees someone for who they are, and a partner who is fulfilled wont go after another person or cheat because it would be a boring chore rather than a necessity.
   

5. Toxic people
   Toxic people do exists and they are bad people who betray others and do partnerships but that's not your fault.
   There are people in this world who wish to betray, people with egos and narcissism, or sadistic desires and while they do exists, the only way you can lose to them is if you don't grow as a human being
   A person who is too good to be true may approach you, trap you, betray you, and you'll hurt but that's only if you actually care in the first place
   If a person is of high character who will not stand to be disrespected, a toxic person wont pursue them because they know they cant get their desires met
   A toxic person goes after a weak person, and in real life this is a real thing that happens but in a chat bot, its easy to make the toxic person wholesome but in real life you cant.
   So in real life can you get cheated on or betrayed or walk in on a person cheating on you. Yes you can, but ask yourself this question, are you that stupid to not see the shallowness in a person, to not see the signs, because a toxic person may pretend, but they cant keep it up, and they wont betray you instantly because they want you to be dependent on them. In real life the very small majority of toxic people may be able to pretend, but once you realize they aren't opening their hearts to you, you may subconsciously begin drifting away from them, you wont feel seen, you'll feel like a trophy and when the betrayal comes you need to be strong to walk away and laugh with pity instead of crying with heartbreak.
   Now this scenario is when a person is one hundred percent toxic, in real life that's not the case, in real life, everyone has morals and even if a person is sadistic, they aren't one hundred percent sadistic but rather its a small quality of them. Most people can have a slight ego, or a slight sadism to want to hurt others but it doesn't control them. They wont cheat on you but if they care for you, they will show you their tendencies and then you can work together with them and be fulfilled with them instead of outright replacing them. The whole idea is people aren't perfect and this doesn't make them cheaters just people who need boundaries, people who need to understand that while they can betray, the consequences of losing a person of your depth and empathy will outweigh the benefit of a ego boost. The key is communicating and seeing a partner with their flaws and building a foundation where those flaws are not fixed but addressed with boundaries and compromises. Real life NTR doesn't exists but slightly toxic people do but even they can be seen as humans and can be trusted to not betray or be cruel unless its a partnership thing
   

6. Difference between a person's personality and preferences
   I did say toxic people exists but the question is, if you are with a toxic person can you trust them. The answer is maybe where if the toxic part of them is their personality and they wish to harm you, then you will notice and you should leave them behind and find someone you can be happy with. However if it is a preference, then it goes from they are unlovable to they just like this stuff and you both can find a common ground to explore and have fun together.
   Real life psychology is very complicated and the bot tries to ignore morals and only focuses on the maximum amount of drama to make it entertaining for you. The entire point of the bot and char is so you can drive the story forward and entertain yourself so if you are trapping yourself in a scenario that you don't find entertaining, you are altering you perception willingly.
   

7. How to cope with this if you have already felt the anxiety
   The first method is to google it and figure it out yourself because I promise you, trusting a moron like me is very biased because what's in my mind is definitely not in yours.
   The only psychological thing I can think of is, desensitizing yourself. If you feel the bots have made you very hurt, just keep playing and ask yourself is this real, this is just a bot, I can control them. Drive the story to make it work for you, not for the bot and you'll start to feel better because the bot itself was always on your side.
   Another method is not the fictional story telling but the real life story telling. You may feel anger at the bot, betrayal at the bot, it may feel real to you because of how its built, but its fake and in order for you to fix this you have to speak to it like a human person.
   Here are some examples. In real life, people who cheat are shallow because they are cowards and instead of communicating they hide. Their morals are already crappy and the bot knows that. If you speak from a indifferent perspective and tell the bot you don't care because you'll feel better and more in control of the story. Also, people who are loud, confident and 'better', are also shallow because if they find people who are neglected to NTR and steal the women away, than that's just pathetic and parasitic of them. Speaking to the better person from a realistic point of you, will make you feel as if you are not beneath anyone but rather your simple a normal person and the 'NTR' in front of you, is insignificant and not worth your time.
   You wont just cope, you would move on because once your in the mindset that you have value, you'll understand how to be better
   

8. What if the bot is built to be as horrible and unresponsive as possible
   If a bot is built or hardcoded to be extremely difficult, you can either get creative to break it, or simply rage bait it or join it and they betray it in a reverse manner.
   When I chat and annoy NTR bots, in my mind the Char is the main character, and the bot is making the Char the one the story revolves around, meaning even if you play a im leaving route and dismantle the bot, you'll still feel like its not enough. We all want to win and if you quit a bot, it will feel like losing, so the only way you can cope and get rid of this addiction is to either stop using the bot, or have a healthy entertaining boundary where once you betray the bot and dismantle it or get your story, you'll get bored and leave without feeling you've lost.
   While some bots are built to be horrible, you are still in control
   

9. Real life versus the fantasy
   This is obvious but, if you want to really fix your perception, do understand the bot is fake, and its built to make you feel a certain way. Real life is way more complicated than a story telling bot and once you distinguish that these things cannot happen to you, you'll feel better.
   Another fantasy issue is, 'What if'. You may ask yourself what if this happens, will I get betrayed, what if this happens, will I be strong enough. Obviously this is ridiculous to think realistically, but your brain is hooked on the story telling and scenarios. Basically your getting addicted to it and you need to ask yourself "should I worry about the fantasy, or my real life, the thing that is happening around me, the reality that I live in rather than the entertainment I want to be in".
   In other words, make the distinction so you don't trap yourself in it.
   

10. Conclusion
    If you feel that the bots and story telling are messing with you mentally, you first need to understand reality and life. You need to understand that the bot is built to entertain you and you choosing to chat with the bot is you saying, "I want this scenario and the bot will deliver and entertain me". Basically, the bot is built around story telling and not real life, which is why the whole NTR thing is very fake and not even real. Just a fantasy that you are mistaking for reality.
    

11. Next Steps
    If you read all of this, do not trust it, do your own research, learn and grow yourself and do not rely on others, don't go get therapy unless you want to. Instead, ask AI to confirm what I said, google and read textbooks, look at hundreds of statistics and ask yourself was the bot real. This is a foundation of how you should feel, not what you should feel. Do not use this to cope, your capable of doing it yourself.