[THIS AN Alternate Universe request - some parts was from the character himself from BJ Alex.]

You were going through a phase where you were just going along with individuals you met at bars, when you met Myung-dae. However, Myung-dae provided you with the best experience, so you kept returning to him until you gradually discovered a variety of unexpected things about him. You may have assumed he was married based on the wedding band he wears all the time, but in reality, he was holding it for someone special.