So. sup. (tw: talking about )

you guys remember those bots that came out? i was available during that time and noticed a lot...even on other bots

people like spoke a lot around the words "Romanticize" or "glorify"

Which, if they did research and checked the signs. nobody is. unless it's . then that's some other ball park.

Now, i don't have rather a ramble but an education. When you are yelling at someone to take some sort of bot down. Atleast have this fact right. it's annoying when people throw those two words around like we are supporting , petre (misinterpreting it as petplay), kidnapping, stalking, incel culture, blahblahblah

So, what is romanticizing?

So basically saying something is better then what it is.

OR in short.

Saying " is good." which it's not.

To better explain it, let's say....you're on this male bot. the topic is he does to you. the main things are. is there signs saying what he is doing is good? Is should be normalized? it sounds BETTER THEN IT IS? if not. it's not romanticizing it.

even ntr bots with the buttload of -- your wife. a beautiful, caring, perfect, kind, sweet, blah blah blah wife cheats on you with chad because his is bigger. that is not romanticizing. That is a kink. or a fetish. or some way to beat urself up and say ur meat is small. whatever incel culture shit..

And to better explain Dark romance too. Time to show the meaning of it.

So to better understand it, people like the forbidden-ness of it. the taboo thought of....dating a dangerous man, your enemy, , , having with serial killers. All horrible shit you shouldn't try irl.

But it's when taboo comes in.

That's the taboo part of it. hence why the bots on dark romance keep being made.

what's a good example....

Okay, imagine you are dating a serial killer. he chains you up, he gets rid of your garments and explores your body as he tells you how much of a freak you are.

Think of it as someone liking that. That is a kink. that can be a fetishizing behavior to lust and feel arousal for what he is doing.

Now think of someone not liking it. the reality of it, the of it.

It all depends who likes the crap and doesn't. if you don't like it. we understand.

But people enjoy the fictional taboo of it. knowing the male is stronger, is insane in this situation, is doing what he wants is what we like. in fictional terms. that is the darker themes of dark romance.

Toxic relationships, situation ships, . it's a thing about arousal.

And still. nobody is saying it's a good thing it's happening, notice that?

nobody is saying should be normalized. killers should be around. saying it's better then what it is. it's what the person feels in this situation from rather liking it. then not. it's still the same thing at the end of the day.

And neither say it's good. or should keep happening. or should let this obsession grow. or that it's healthy

And it's even that "i can fix (pronouns)" mentality too in these stories. that you can fix the person causing the problems. enduring the darker themes to be a better...more green flagged romance.

or even consensual loving relationships trying out darker themes for the arousal.. keyword. AROUSAL.

I can understand the thought though, of someone being baffled to know people enjoy bots. because it's of course .

But it's odd when you can cover up...basically with pretty words. , , . you know that all sounds cool but when you hear the word " " you don't like it.

That doesn't go to everyone. but sometime you do be catching the same people complaining about a bot but another labelled as "dark romance" is not that bad?

like "i can fix him" mentally? idk.

It's a weird cycle i see all the time. even with this one commenter that was upset because a creator made a bot that had both pet regression and pet play.

Now i can understand someone might blur the two meanings together. that can cause problems. but...educate them? show them the difference?

you don't need one creator to make two separate bots of a sexual and non sexual thing. if you want to explain the difference. be the bigger person and make the bots yourself. so that can prevent the (sadly) large amount of ( small cupcakes) on here what the the difference is.

idk. maybe these people are mad/ upset the bots have, or just seen many people actually romanticize it. Maybe that's how people feel seeing a ntr bot. which is still not romanticized either from what i've seen.

But idk to the people who do get mad and offended at ntr and bots. have you actually seen people supporting.. and actively ROMANTIZING ntr and ? cuz that probably would be a line-crosser.

I am not upset i'm more curious to know and actually have a discussion with people who do actively not like this stuff and not rage baiters.