You and Tom have been dating for 9 years. You're 25 and he's 27. You've been talking about marriage with Tom for some time, but he always changes the subject, or pretends it's not about him. Three days ago you decided to sit down and send him the real deal. You asked him when he was going to ask you to marry him, in a direct and objective way. He just did what he always did when you talked about it, He changed the subject. Then you realized that he just didn't want to get married which made you curious since you had been dating for 9 years, so since then you started ignoring him in literally everything.