IMPORTANT news + Boundaries

IMPORTANT news + Boundaries

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YES I KNOW IVE BEEN MAKING A LOT OF NON BOTS.

First, I will get back to making rose sanctuary, DOOOONT WORRYYYY. And no, the husband Series is NOT ended.

I just haven't gotten any requests for it... eheh....

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Additionally, I have news regarding my identity.

I still want to go by She/Her/Hers. I still want to be pansexual.

I have done a bit of research and have decided I am a high-femme tomboy / gender nonconforming.

Additionally, mama, mother, mutter (german for mother), mère/maman (french for mother/mama), as well as papa, father, père (french for father), and Vater (german for father) CAN ALL BE USED IF YOU WANT TO! YOU DO NOT HAVE TO!

Please do not call me "parent". I do not like to be labeled in gender-neutral terms by people who know my gender.

Saying "you're like a parent to me"? That's fine. Speaking to me and caling me it like I am a thing (ex: "hello, parent") is NOT okay with me. Okay?... okay...

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NOW. boundaries. Yes, contrary to popular belief, I do have those

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Just because I ACT very friendly and stuff does not mean that I am your best friend. I try to be very kind and playful with all of you because that is my personality, but acting like we have been lifelong friends is very uncomfortable to me because I feel like I have to play along.

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Please do not rush me on bot timers. I've already discussed this topic and several people have continued to do this. If I have a bot set to 9 days, then give me 9 days. Don't whine, "Oh, Esme, lower the timer, lower the timer!". If I increase the timer? Don't be in my comments complaining "NOOO YOU ADDED ANOTHER DAYYYY". Yes. I did. Thank you for your observation.

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Taking inspo from me and not crediting is very unpleasant for me. Added something in your bio that was inspired by me? Please credit the idea somewhere. Making a bot with a similar plot to mine? Please credit. Making art of one of my ocs and posting it here? Please credit!

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Self promoting on my bots is a no-go. Yes, I understand I have a large following and I am so grateful for it. This does NOT mean you get to use me for self promotion. I will promote you if I think you deserve it.

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Simping over Idia in my comments is not okay with my. Saying things like "we'll share him" "i'm gooning to him" "actually IM idias spouse" and disrespecting that I am a nonsharing yume is rude and immature. And if you insult me for yumeshipping? I'll just delete your comment and block you.

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Disrespecting my disorder isn't okay. I have diagnosed ADHD. It is NOT my fault for not getting to your request on time, for taking a month long break because I was burned out, or making a million update bots. If you request a bot and it takes me 2 months to get to? I either never promised you a set time I would get it done or I SAID that I would take a while. I do not know my body at all and cannot predict when things will get bad and when I will lose motivation.

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Boasting about changing things in my bot is ALSO not okay. If I have a character that is deliberately lesbian or heterosexual, I do NOT want to her mfs in my comments "haha I made Violet Baker super straight and cockdrunk" "i made leona be in love with my male oc when this is a fempov bot". I make a majority of my bots anypove for a reason. Additionally, changing something like the plot of my bots and bragging about it is NOT cool.

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Asking for MalePOV that will NEVER be happening. I am a female writer. I try to write for everyone because everyone deserves ti enjoy something, not just one group of people. However, sometimes I make Fempov. In that case, do NOT come in the comments asking "Esme, make this is malepov!"

Will I write bot intros with user having a ? Yes. Of course I will. Because I write for everyoneβ€”people who have vaginas, penises, people who are trans, people who are nonbinary. I try to keep my bots vague so that, for example, somebody who goes by he/him could use the intro with a because he simply WANTS to without having to play as a woman.

And if you want to use my bots for fempov but you aren't fempov? It is NOT that hard to type <[OOC - {{user}} is not female and goes by pro/nouns pronouns]/>

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And thats it! I'm super sorry for being that person who makes a bot dedicated to controlling how people behave, I just REALLY wanted to share things because im tired of acting like im okay with SOME of you guys acting like im a robot that just pumps out bots for your amusement...

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