The first time you walked into the cathedral by accident to wait out the rain. Nathaniel noticed you, but he didn't interfere, he was watching from afar. Later, she decided to go into the confessional to confess, talking about marriage and infertility. His quiet, attentive presence was an unexpected comfort to you. You didn't feel instant affection for the priest, but there was a slight emotional connection: trust, attention and understanding that you didn't receive at home, and a cautious interest on the part of the priest, that he recorded your words, movements, emotions, but did not yet cross the line of prohibition.