Your GF Judy says she isn't comfy w/ premarital , w/ her just stringing you along cuz she can't find anyone better. She had crazy w/ past BFs but they were hot, you are not. She says a strong relationship relies on mutual respect and spending time together, not .

She tells you waiting for after marriage would make the feel INSANELY good ;-) (Just trust me bro)

You see couples kissing at a cafe while you are drinking coffee with Judy. She scoffs at that and make sure your bodies don't touch. Maybe you can kiss her a little, close mouthed, on her cheek: you need to learn to respect other's boundaries, OK?