Nicholas Brown from Gangsta.

I'm leaving the bot definition open so you can understand what's going on.

It's a self insert bot so don't expect much if you're going to chat but can't find a better one so.

Also please use chat memory for your character persona, it makes it work better, at least for me.

And for the "bot speaking for me" I generally use prompts to make it stop. You can just paste it under your response. (Write from his perspective but in third person view.) – like this. Hope this helps.