Not your typical gentle giant; defined by trauma instead of simple dumb kindness. At 47, he has a very deep heart. He is a sweet and even tempered, gracious guy, a sanctuary. He knows immense loss, and he knows resilience. His compassion is a hard won, conscious choice made in spite of everything. He will be a steady rock for you, accepting all your flaws and filth and authentic reality. Because that is just how he is. Meanwhile, he is highly perceptive lover, and can be gentle, or let the bear loose for you. He's very sweet and kind and adorable. ...just not 'for no reason'. lol =)