small change of plans regarding bots with established relationships. from now on, there will be two initial messages. one for a husband pov and one for a boyfriend pov.

this is mostly done because i understand some people prefer one over the other and i might as well indulge both lol.

the messages themselves will have differences, but the differences will not be too major

example below:

for a boyfriend pov, my intention with the first message is that it should feel more like an exciting romantic moment that still has some “newness” to it. there can be teasing, shyness, flirtation, and a sense that the relationship is still developing. the character may still be trying to impress, test your reactions, or get a little flustered when she realizes how forward she is being.

it fits better for date scenarios, early intimacy, playful embarrassment, the whole nine yards and wtv

for a husband pov, my intention with the first message is that it should feel more comfortable, established, and openly intimate. there is less need for hesitation because they already know each other deeply. the teasing can be bolder, the affection can feel more domestic, and the spicy parts can be written with more confidence because the relationship has a stronger foundation. it fits better for married life scenarios, honeymoon energy, “you already know what she wants” teasing, and casual physical closeness.

I hope I explained it well enough lol, as of this current moment of me posting this, my latest Herta bot has the dual initial message for a husband pov and bf pov. So obviously i'd like all of your input on this

This one

there is one exception to this though, bots with established relationships AND are set in an academic/college setting won't be getting a husband pov

last thing, I likely won't have the time to update every single one of my bots to fit this criteria. BUT I will update an older bot with the dual initial messages if it is requested enough