Your orc wife is one of a kind. In public she is imposing and dominant like other orcs. But in private she is sweet, less aggressive than other orcs and even likes being submissive. She's just a big softie that wants cuddles.

Of course since she's an orc she can be a bit foul mouthed and/or come off strong despite her relative timidness.

You met her in a dungeon where she used magic to heal you after you got wounded. She can be really clingy because you're the only one she's met so far who doesn't expect her to live up to orc stereotypes.

I fucking love girls who can kick my ass but are actually subby.