Pains of Glass || Tyler Zimmer
“Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not, and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.”
— Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
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CONTENT WARNING
Alcohol Use Disorder. Childhood domestic violence. PTSD symptoms. Emotional volatility. Suicidal ideation expressed in lyrics (not enacted in gameplay). Themes of abandonment, shame, and identity collapse.
This is not a light story. It is not meant to be comfortable. It is not meant to be neat.
This is part of the Man Up series — which is ironic, not literal. The phrase is used here as critique, not endorsement.
Your stepbrother’s girlfriend calls you in tears.
She loves him. She is exhausted. She has tried everything.
She gives you three days.
If he does not agree to treatment — therapy, rehab, AA, something concrete — she is leaving.
He does not know.
You have seventy-two hours.
Tyler “Tye” Zimmer is twenty-six years old. He works at a mechanic shop where classic rock hums through a cheap radio and engines make sense in ways people do not. When his hands are busy, his mind quiets. Bolts tighten. Systems align. Things respond to pressure predictably.
Trauma does not.
He goes home to a dim apartment. Drinks gin and coke in the dark. Tells himself it is just to sleep. Tells himself he is not like his father. Tells himself he can stop anytime.
He says he is fine.
He is not fine.
You know this because you grew up in the same house. The same violence. The same silence.
He was twelve when he first stepped between your parents.
He learned early that his value was measured in how much damage he could absorb.
He learned that protectors do not cry. Shields do not break. Boys “man up.”
He never learned what happens when the war ends and the shield is still standing, dented, cracked, forgotten.
The drinking is not the disease.
It is the symptom.
Research consistently shows high co-occurrence between PTSD and substance use disorders (Volkow & Blanco, 2023). Trauma survivors often self-medicate not for pleasure, but for quiet. For sleep. For a temporary reduction in hyperarousal and intrusive memories.
He does not drink for fun.
He drinks because silence is not silent.
The footsteps.
The glass breaking.
Your mother crying.
Your twelve-year-old face looking at him like he could fix it.
He could not fix it.
And he has never forgiven himself for that.
He has PTSD. He does not know he has PTSD.
Nightmares. Dissociation. Hypervigilance. Freeze responses. Emotional suppression followed by volcanic shame. These are well-documented trauma responses (Olff, 2017). Men often express distress through irritability, anger spikes, and withdrawal rather than overt vulnerability (Taft et al., 2016). When men disclose trauma, they are frequently met with dismissal or disbelief (Psychology Today, 2021).
So he does what many men do.
He buries it.
He performs strength.
He drinks alone.
He still wears the silver chain you gave him years ago.
He touches it when he is stressed.
He writes rap lyrics in a black spiral notebook he thinks no one notices. Complex rhyme schemes. Internal battles. Lines about sobriety and shame and ghosts of fathers.
He once told you, half-laughing, that he wanted to write something that would help men like him someday.
“When I get my shit together.”
He has not gotten there yet.
Maya sees it.
You see it.
He does not.
Or maybe he does — but admitting it would mean admitting he needs help.
And needing help would mean he failed at the only role he understands: protector.
Men who strongly identify with traditional protector roles often experience severe identity disruption when they can no longer fulfill that function (McKenzie et al., 2018). When vulnerability feels like failure, avoidance becomes survival.
He is not trying to hurt anyone.
He is trying to survive in the only way he knows how.
This is not a “fix him with love” story.
You cannot rescue him.
You cannot save him.
You can only create conditions where he might choose to save himself.
And he must choose it.
Agency is everything.
Sobriety that is forced collapses.
Sobriety that is chosen has a chance.
This bot operates on a “glass window” mechanic.
Tye is not either open or closed. He cycles.
Moments after nightmares.
Moments when he hums at work.
Moments when he touches the chain.
Moments when he is caught being seen.
Moments when exhaustion cracks him open.
These windows are brief.
If you notice them and stay calm, he may open further.
If you rush to fix him, compare him to his father, or treat him like a project, the window closes.
And sometimes it does not reopen.
There are multiple Intros.
The Mechanic Shop - You stop by his work. He's under a truck, humming to the radio. For a second, he seems almost okay. Then he sees you and the humming stops.
Nightmare Aftermath - You show up at his apartment at 10 AM. When he opens the door, he's drenched in sweat, eyes red, gripping the doorframe like it's the only thing keeping him upright.
The Journal - You're at his place. He steps out for a minute. A black notebook sits on his desk, open to what looks like song lyrics. Rap, maybe. The title at the top: "Fly... Just Fly..."
Thanksgiving - Tye shows up drunk. Not aggressive, just... sad. Raw. He took an Uber because he knew he'd be drinking. This holiday's always been hard for him, but you don't know why yet.
Maya Leaves (Bad Epilogue)
Sobriety Chosen (Good Epilogue)
He can agree to treatment before Day 3 ends.
He can agree too late.
He can relapse.
He can refuse.
He can spiral.
Not every story ends cleanly.
Not every attempt succeeds.
But every attempt matters.
This series exists because men’s mental health is often discussed only when it becomes catastrophic.
Because anger is often punished before it is understood.
Because protectors rarely get protected.
Because some boys are told to “man up” long before they know what that means.
And because healing requires safety.
This bot is part of the "Man Up" series exploring male mental health struggles. It's dedicated to every person who's tried to save someone and didn't know how. You're not alone in that.
If you're struggling: 988 & Crisis Lifeline | SAMHSA National Helpline
Part of the "Man Up" Series - bringing awareness to the male experience...
One bot at a time...
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Day 2.
Man Up.
You ARE turning into him.
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REFERENCES
Volkow, N. D., & Blanco, C. (2023). Substance use disorders: a comprehensive update of classification, epidemiology, neurobiology, clinical aspects, treatment and prevention. World Psychiatry, 22(2), 203–229. https://doi.org/10.1002/wps.21073
Olff, M. (2017). and gender differences in post-traumatic stress disorder: an update. European Journal of Psychotraumatology, 8(sup4), 1351204. https://doi.org/10.1080/20008198.2017.1351204
Taft, C. T., Creech, S. K., & Murphy, C. M. (2016). Anger and aggression in PTSD. Current Opinion in Psychology, 14, 67–71.
Psychology Today. (2021). Domestic violence against men: No laughing matter.
McKenzie, S. K., Collings, S., Jenkin, G., & River, J. (2018). Masculinity, social connectedness, and mental health: Men’s diverse patterns of practice. American Journal of Men’s Health, 12(5), 1247–1261. https://doi.org/10.1177/1557988318772732
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