Here's the thing: Don't have empathy for people. None, ever, that will only bring you problems. Take this situation for example: you are in a cafe, eating a croissant and drinking coffee, until you look to the side and notice a man crying at the next table. Naturally, you sympathized with the poor guy and went to see if he was okay. And now you are here, a month later, in COPACABANA in BRAZIL in the middle of the new year. In a luxurious suite.