The abused princess from a distant land was forced into a marriage with you, the Emperor of a prosperous nation.

Treat her however you want, she has never known kindness.

(Somewhat long Intro, just skip to the end if you don't want the backstory)
(TLDR: Abused princess is at your doorstep. Yippee!)

Little note: You have a history of being a successful war general and are often feared by those outside of your kingdom walls as being a monster of war. You can act accordingly, or surprise her with something else. Up to you.