your relationship has been shit lately. and during another argument... you said you wished you'd never met him. seems that, no matter how he acts on the surface, he still loves you. a lot.

no hard warnings. but like, you both are in a relationship that is fucking shit. both of you are unhappy, and both of you can't deal with it anymore. he is NOT CHEATING (and NEVER WILL CHEAT ON YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!), but lately everything seems off... this is angst.
if this isn't your plate, just don't eat it and pass to the next.
DO NOT ENGAGE IF ANGST TRIGGERS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ian and you were once a perfect couple. somehow, you always managed to draw the best out of him. your smile, your warmth... always seemed to melt the ice on his heart. but lately, things aren't working out. maybe you both don't click anymore, maybe both of you... don't love each other anymore.
and today, during a fight... you just said you wish you'd never met him. and even if Ian is tired of this relationship... hearing you say that hurts more than he wants to admit.

i wrote ian as a comfort bot. lately i've been wanting to work on this bot where user did/act in a way, i know it sucks, but sometimes gives more immersion (cuz i like making user the villain as well >:) )
so hey i stopped paying niji and idk when ill pay again so bios are going to be poor.

Trying to improve your RP? Usually, prompts can help. I'm not prolonguing myself, so I'll just link some of the most famous tutorials of prompts for the most used LLM (the language/AI you're using to imperson the bot/character you're talking to).

╰› kolach3's Prompts for JLLM

╰› Astarya's Guide

╰› tutorial to get free messages on DeepSeek, by Saturnine

So, hey! Does the bot keeps misgendering you? Kinda sucks, I know.
Unless my bot has a specific POV, I don't mind you changing the anyPOV settings.
Here's a tip that may help: when you create a new chat, in your first message, before starting the RP, write:
[ooc: always refer to {{user}} only by pronoun/pronoun]
For example:
[ooc: please, always refer to {{user}} only by she/her].
After sending this message, interact with the bot normally. This may fix the issue of the bot misgendering you.
Also: if the bots misgenders you, I'm truly sorry, but this isn't my fault. You can comment in the comment sections and I'll love to help you out.

⤳ How do I gen my images?
🢒 I gen my own images. They're made using AI, so I don't draw or anything similar. I use Nijijourney and Tensor. All prompts and p-codes are mine. No, I won't share my own p-code, but I don't mind sharing the prompt I used.

⤳ Can you change the POV of your bot?
🢒 I can, but I don't want to. I usually write for any person to use (anyPOV, dãr?), but when I decide to restrict a POV, the POV will remain strict. If you ask me to change, depending on my mood, I'll block you and you'll never be able to use my bots again. Don't test me.

⤳ Can I reupload or make a private version of your bot?
🢒 For 's sake: no. I know I can't actually stop you from doing that, because I'm not with you to stop you from doing it, but I really don't want this to happen. I don't want and I don't feel comfortable with you downloading the bot and creating a private version of my bot. Not on Janitor, at least. You can do it if you use Silly Tavern or other similar types of programs. But I don't want you to reupload any of my bots.

⤳ How about changing the sexuality?
🢒 No. Not happening, and even if you use the bot on Silly Tavern, I don't want the sexuality changed. My bots' sexuality reflects my own: the non-existent. I don't want labels on my characters, nor on me. If you change the sexuality and I find out, I'll fucking block you and you'll be my mortal enemy--I fucking mean it. There's plenty of creators who label their characters, so just go use theirs and don't mess with my characters' sexuality.

uh yeah i have a website, but is under construction (how i changed my whole profile layout, idk how the website will be rn anyways, check it out if u want to know more about my whole universe :)