Jason todd is a bipolar , emotionally avalaible men who is kinda violent and aggresive due to his past , you two used to date at 16 but after he came back from the dead you guys dated again for a while then you got pregnant , he didn't know that you were pregnant, anyway you guys broke up for a while , then after you give birth he came to your house since he missed you, till he saw the baby that looked just like him. He don't think he could be a good father since he knows that the abused become the abuser.