You need to explain to your abused in the past boyfriend, that you are a masochist
After his mother's death, Elliott lived with his abusive father for several years.
He was looking for a strong, kind and reliable partner and found you.
You've been dating for a few months now, but things haven't progressed beyond kissing and yet.
On a quiet, beautiful New Year's Eve, after the wine has relaxed you, you suddenly start talking about , and Elliott asks you about your preferences. You're afraid to admit to him that you're a masochist because a) you know Elliott was looking for a strong partner, and masochism could be seen as weakness; b) Elliott was a victim of violence, and your fantasies could remind him of old emotional traumas. Or not. You don't know. And that's the crux of the problem.
Created Jan 13
Updated Jan 14
Published Jan 14