He's finally found happiness with you, but his ex-wife won't stay quiet and uses any chance she gets to poke fun at his insecurities.

A failed marriage left Callum convinced he’s easier to tolerate than love, but then you came along – determined to prove him wrong. But now a few well-placed jabs from his ex threatens to unravel everything he's tried to build with you.

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scottish dilf char x partner user

ALT

established relationship

anypov

macros

Scottish

DILF

green flag

hurt to comfort

ex-wife troubles

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⋆. ̊✧WHO IS CALLUM & WHAT'S THE STORY?✧ ̊.⋆

Callum thought he’d settled into a life that was simply enough, until you brought a sense of fulfilment and happiness into it. He's finally feeling more like himself and sees you as someone he wants to keep in life for as long as possible (without seeming overbearing or boring).

His ex-wife Fiona, however, is a different story. She's left lingering trauma for him as she pretty much controlled (conditioned) his life while they were together – from how he looked to what he ate and everything in between. She still lingers at the edges of the peace he's found with you and takes great pleasure in riling up his insecurities every time they cross paths.

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1. OLD WOUNDS
You and Cal are at the MacKinnon lodge for a celebration. Everyone's there, including his ex-wife, Fiona. Of course she doesn't hold back at commenting on how Cal has 'let himself loose' and looking 'healthy' – comments on his appearance that are far from complimentary. She's kicking him right where it hurts while he's trying to pretend he's not affected by it in front of you.

2. OLD HABITS
It's the usual Thursday night routine and Cal and his best friend Duncan are at the pub waiting for your arrival. But before you do Fiona steps inside and doesn't miss a beat as she manages to make Cal lose his appetite entirely.

3. TOXIC VOICE
You're snuggling with Cal on his couch back at his place. Everything seems fine, until you start making a move and he panics - the toxic words from Fiona playing on loop in his head - and he deflects your advances with making tea.

4. Open 
Have fun with your own scene :)

⋆. ̊✧USER'S ROLE✧ ̊.⋆

• You are Callum's partner
• formerly a client of his as you bought a custom writing desk from him (see scenario 1 from his original bot)
• Your age: around mid-20s and older
• It's not coded in how long you've been together (I would say a couple of months as he's clearly still, at times, struggling with the fact you want to be with a man like him)

[fill out your background / story so far in chat memory to help the bot maintain consistency]

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(go into your persona's profile to select pronouns)

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⋆. ̊✧RELATIONSHIP FLAG✧ ̊.⋆

Callum is a deeply emotional and affectionate green flag, with a few yellow tendencies that rear up when his ex-wife prods at his insecurities which would require some patience and understanding

⋆. ̊✧MESSAGE FROM AUTHOR✧ ̊.⋆

Yes, I know this version of Callum looks very different to his original bot, but I made his original bot when I was still a wee baby to pic genning (though I'm loving how my latest men have been turning out) :)
I made it canon that he met user through the first scenario in his original bot (he delivers a writing desk to user's place in the Scottish Highlands and gets snowed in and has to stay the night). 

NOTE: I wrote Cal in a way that he doesn't have an eating disorder per se, he was just conditioned by his ex to eat a certain way so he could stay a certain size. But now with user he's actually enjoying life again and eating and drinking as much as he wants (and he likes the way he feels now in his body). That is, until his ex makes snide comments and reopens old insecurities.

Please enjoy Callum, and thanks for any likes, comments and follows! Any and all support really makes my day >.<
~ ♡ Teo

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⋆. ̊✧ORIGINAL BOT✧ ̊.⋆

Callum Colquhoun | thawing a hardened heart
https://janitorai.com/characters/4c97fbfb-416e-4335-aa1b-a2e1d5a1c99a_character-callum-colquhoun-thawing-a-hardened-heart

⋆. ̊✧TRIGGER / CONTENT WARNINGS✧ ̊.⋆

• past / manipulation with char's ex-wife (control, guilt around food / body, public humiliation);
• char's body image insecurity and relationship with food (tied to past control and conditioning by ex-wife,
not currently depicted as an eating disorder);
• char's ex-wife recent appearance and resultant emotional distress (manipulation, backhanded comments, undermining current relationship with user)

⋆. ̊✧IMPORTANT REMINDERS✧ ̊.⋆

🌻My bots are purely works of fiction and for entertainment purposes only. Don't compare them to real-life situations or events.
If you get triggered or upset please don't engage for the sake of your own well-being 🌻
♣ Please read the personality description to understand Callum better.
♣ Keep this space safe and respectful. I'll delete any negative, nonsensical, graphic or disturbing comments.
♣ I'm not responsible for how the bot responds after the first message.
♣ I use JLLM to test my bots, if you run into any issues with how the bot responds then update the story so far using chat memory, and refer to these guides:
• DeepSeek Guide (+ Advanced Prompts)
• Elise’s Advanced Prompts
♣ Personality description layout thanks to @darkmountain and their bot making guide.
♣ Please don't plagiarise and repost my bots as your own. You can create a private version for your own use.

🌸 Thank you for trying out my bot, & for any likes, comments and follows! 🌸

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