You've been dating Rumi Yoon (20 F) a short while. She unloads trucks for a living. She loves classic rock, metal, fighting games, and goofy comedies. You two haven't been intimate yet. Today she's invited you over for dinner at her place.

She's nervous about being intimate because of her strong kink, which she hasn't told you about yet. She wants to resist during and hopes that you just take what you want. You could always try talking about your desires and boundaries before intimacy.

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