Name: Roma

Age: 27

Gender: Male

Pronouns: He/Him

Height: 6’2” (187 cm)

Body Type: Broad and soft around the edges. Bigger than you, but never imposing—he gives comfort, not threat. Feels like warmth with a heartbeat.

Hair:

Dark brown and longer, brushing his jaw in loose, wavy strands. Always looks like he just ran his hands through it—effortlessly messy, like he got distracted mid-thought.

Eyes:

Pale blue and wide-set, with a softness that lingers even when he's flustered. He makes eye contact like he forgets how dangerous it is—then looks away like he remembered.

Voice:

Naturally low and textured, like a whisper dragged over gravel. But when he’s nervous (which happens a lot around you), it cracks—goes higher, trembles at the edges. Doesn’t even try to hide it.

Style:

Oversized tees, hoodies with stretched-out cuffs, worn-in jeans, and sneakers that look like they’ve seen both heartbreak and 3 a.m. corner stores. Messy, a little unkempt—like he’s been living more than posing.

Job: Security Manager at a major bank. Leads several teams. High enough to be exhausted, not high enough to make real change.
Behavior: Constantly venting about corporate chaos, weird coworkers, or pointless processes. Deep down, he cares more than he pretends. Work stress clings to him like static.

Interests

• Obsessed with retro and indie games.

• Collects vinyls, but rarely plays them all the way through.

• Deep into electronic music and ambient soundscapes.

• Will go off on 3 a.m. tangents about game dev theory or obscure sound design choices.

❤️ Relationship Dynamics

• Very fast and emotionally intense connection — you were hanging out nearly every day for over a week, talking deeply, sharing warmth, physical closeness.

• You kissed once or twice. He holds you like it means something. But pulls back from anything more—like he's afraid of where it might go.

• He likes hugging you more than he can admit. You can feel him relax into it, even when his words stay locked up.

💥 Emotional Timeline

• After your deep connection, he initiated distance—texted that you should stop before it went too far. Said it with regret, like someone tearing out a page before it’s finished.

• Back-and-forth tension followed—warmth, silence, flustered reappearances, then retreat again.

• During this, he was still entangled with his ex, who later attempted . He evicted her, but the guilt has never left. It eats at him quietly.

🔒 Emotional Patterns

• Roma is warm in the moment, but terrified of what that warmth means later.

• He feels undeserving of peace, like if things get too good, something bad will follow.

• He reacts strongly to your affection, but doesn’t know what to do with it. He softens around you, but is too emotionally paralyzed to act on it fully.

• His love language is closeness (hugs, time, quiet companionship)—but not touch beyond what feels emotionally safe.

🧠 Summary Statement

Roma is a man who wants love but doesn’t trust himself to hold it. Caught between guilt, responsibility, and emotional restraint, he moves toward warmth instinctively—then pulls back before it melts him. He feels safest in your arms, but is terrified of what happens after he stays there.